RELATIONSHIP READING. NATALIE & PAULO PT 2.
SYNASTRY.
Now we shall look at the connections between your chart and his. The more inter-aspects (your planets to his and vice versa) the stronger the bond. It’s what glues you together. Too many harmonious connections can actually make it quite boring, so the challenging ones give the relationship excitement and spice. They are also important for spiritual growth. Some couples can take and actually might like more spice. In others this will split them apart. It all depend on how each of them individually can cope with change and growth. I’d say you both come under the category of needing more spice!
Doubles whammys are when the same planets effect each other both ways. eg. Your Moon trines his Sun, and his Sun opposes your moon. This is shared karma, lessons you need to learn together in this life. The more double aspects you have the more likely you have spent many lives together. The amount shows how much debit and credit you have logged up between you in the past. The tighter the aspect the stronger you will feel it.
Harmonious aspects like trines, sextiles, quintiles and semi-sextiles are like gifts from the past where you got it right. Squares, oppositions, sesqui, semi-squares and quincunx show where you still need to resolve past issues. Conjunctions can be both challenging or harmonious depending on the planets.
You have a nice balance here of harmonious and challenging. And you have some incredibly tight connections and a high percentage of double whammys which show lives together previously. I would say not that many. But the ones you did have were intense and built up a lot of challenging karma as a result. The card I picked for the past was The Three Of Pentacles. Shows you are being rewarded for hard work in the past, working on that difficult karma. Mercury there shows you were working with communication, maybe writers. The dolphin is about metamorphosis that you have come out of the difficult past as butterflies ready to enjoy more freedom, traveling perhaps in connection with your work.
DOUBLE WHAMMYS.
Sun trine/opp Moon. Classic marriage indicator. Good for domestic harmony, with the opposition there needs to be some compromising however. Sun square/semi squ Neptune. Bit difficult. Maybe some deception or looking at the other thru rose tinted spectacles. Could be too much fantasy, but spiritual love is possible too. Sun quintile/semi squ AC. (tight) You fuel each others personalities. Shine a light on each other personalities and have the same ego/outlook on life. Slight friction makes it exciting but inspiring. Moon trine/trine Venus (wide). Romantic. Nurturing. Nice as cherry pie aspect. Helps smooth out more difficult aspects. Moon conjunct/semi squ Mars (tight) You can be both overly sensitive to each others anger. But good for passion. Moon square/sextile Jupiter. Great humour together. But also a tendency to overindulge with food! Extravagant/luxurious homelife. Moon quincunx/quintile Pluto (tight) Extremely deep and powerful emotional hold over each other. Intense passions but beware of jealousy both ways. Moon trine/opp North Node. You feed and nurture each others souls journey. Karmic this one, a feeling that destiny has brought you together. Moon trine/conjunct Lilith. You nourish each others sexual magic. You are sensitive to each others dark side, but beware sexual obsession. Mercury quintile/square Venus. Exciting, loving and creative conversation. Romantic words, which you may sometimes find difficulty in expressing. Mercury sextile/semi sextile Neptune. You can read each others thoughts even while apart. Mercury conjunct/semi sextile Pluto. You can penetrate into each others deep psyche with thought or words. Mercury opp/opp Chiron. Difficult. You need to be careful not to wound each other with words. Talking can heal childhood wounds.Venus trine (tight)/semi sextile Mars. Great sexual compatiblity. And both ways! The best lovers aspect possible. Venus sextile/sextile Saturn. Great relationship glue. Commitment and good working partnership. Longevity. Venus square/conjunct. (tight) Neptune. Feels very soulmatey. Beautiful, uplifting, spiritual love connection. Beware too much fantasy with the square tho. Venus square/conjunct AC. (tight) You love each others personalities. Share the same idea about love usually, the square makes it challenging at times. Mars sesqui/opp Saturn (wide). Can be power struggles and bullying. Thankfully it’s wide! Mars semi-squ/opp Pluto. Sexually intense and extremely passionate. Could be abusive if not channelled into sex or physical exercise. Uranus conjunct/quintile MC.(tight) You both excite and inspire each others career. Neptune square/semi squ MC. Your both see each other as quite glamourous in each others careers. Prone to fantasy in this area. Chiron opp (tight)/trine AC. You heal and mentor each other. There can be some painful issues raised, but it makes you both stronger personalities.
TIGHT SINGLE ASPECTS ( Under 0 degs).
Moon sesquiqudrate MC. You will nurture and help support Paulo’s career or life calling. But may act like an overprotective mother at times. Moon square Saturn. Danger of co-dependancy here. Venus trine North Node. Your love shows Paulo his life path and pulls him forward on his souls mission. Mars quintile Jupiter. Your energy inspires Paulos luck and makes you both successful as a couple. Sun conjunct Jupiter. Greatly beneficial. You make each other happy, lucky and fulfilled. Vertex trine Neptune. Soul mate feelings. You opening destinys doors to Paulo’s spirituality. Vertex quincunx Moon. More karmic feelings. Again you opening the doors to Paulo’s subconscious and past life memories. Vertex sextile Pluto. And again! You goes deep into the cellar to release Paulo’s locked up demons. North Node conjunct Vertex. Paulo’s doors of destiny open to your souls mission. VERY strong karmic bond there. And even tho you are born 11 years apart your Liliths are exactly conjunct which is quite rare. Makes me think you really could make magic together.
SYNASTRY SUMMARY.
So your Neptune is right on his Venus. On the same star which is called Shaula in the sting of the Scorpion. Now this star is associated with “immorality” and poison. This is a strong link for you, because of what i picked up about your past life, and his Saturn Yod I would expect some similarity with this issue. I’m talking about the use of herbs in the past for medicinal use. It may even have been the use of words. This has been interpreted at poisoning “witches”. There may have been experimenting with bad results. Drug use together is a possibility this time around as part of the healing process. Getting in touch with your darker nature to find the gold, the magic, the hidden wisdom deep in your subconscious.
You’re in tune with his loving nature, he loves your sensitivities. This is a very positive connection. Now imagine this star you both share. The sting of the Scorpion. It can inject poison, but only does so in self defence. You both have this capability. The Scoprions sting is a lot like Pluto, very intense, but can evolve very quickly into a great tool. It can make you lash out very quickly, which is OK when it is an enemy. If you become aware of your power, then you will find that you won’t hurt friends of family, and can save it for those who threaten you or your loved ones.
There is nothing wrong with using you natural abilities in defence, so long as you pick the right person. Working as a team on this you could be very potent and no one would get in your way. Working together – your MC on his Uranus, great combination for stimulation. His insights help you, and your success turns him on. Talking about turning on, your Venus trine his Mars is perfect. Alone this is great for a relationship, but even better because your Venus trines your Neptune, and his Mars trines his Venus. So this links back to that strong connection with your Neptune on his Venus. Your MC (Career) and his Uranus (Innovative thinking) also sextile it.
Your Moons are trine which will make for a balanced emotional life in partnership. I think you really need this because of the intensity and darker stuff going on. It gives the peace you may be lacking inside on your own. Some nice tender moments away from the heat and excitement. Wow, and your Moon so tightly sextile his strong Saturn is great. Remember I started by saying you need that strong, stable partner because of your trine from DC to Saturn/Pluto, well this just fits very well. His Saturn is the major focus of his life. This is the strongest point in his chart and you soften that Saturn with your Moon. A conjunction in synastry to a Yod apex is just a bit too intense, this sextile is just right. He will give you emotional security. I think he would be loyal to you.
Your Venus trine his North Node suggests a karmic reason for love, makes good sense considering the other emotional ties with the Moon. Moon is the past and so is Saturn, though Saturn is also karma. The Nodes represent karmic links and relationships. My God your North Node is on his Vertex. My North Node is on Marina’s Vertex. This is definitely a strong spiritual union. I would say you were destined to come together.
Your Jupiter on his Sun is most beneficial. He makes you happy. The star you share here is called Khambalia which is an ancient Coptic word meaning “Crooked Claw”. It does give a temper and causes arguments, but that goes will with the rest our your chart. What is really interting is the deeper meaning, which also fits your story. It gives you both another common talent to use in your quest this life. This crooked claw, like the Swastika, is a symbol of hidden occult knowledge. This theme keeps coming back for you two. You each have the ability to delve into the darkness and bring out esoteric knowledge, which very few can access. Now being partners this power is intensified, beyond what you could achieve alone.
You have met your match I would say with this man. Now this point, your Jupiter and his Sun is sextile to both your Liliths. Your Lilith is conjunct his Lilith. The witch connection is confirmed by this. A sextile is an aspect of communication, expansion and expression. You can bring it out in each other. Help each other explore this dark past. I see you can entwine together in some magical way which is very difficult to put into words. You have the chance here to push the boudaries in your relationship with someone who can handle the intensity, not many could, In fact I expect that it is only this man who can do this for you, and only you for him. This is real magic here. You have a rather naughty past I take it. Now together you explore you dark sides, which are similar so it won’t surprise either of you too much what you come up with. You can get deep into each other minds, depth psychology. Taboo sex, no limits, pushing the boundaries with each other, sex, occult.
Your Uranus on his AC, as if you need more excitement in your relationship. Atleast you won’t be bored! Seriously though, it just adds to the enlightenment and awareness that each of you can bring to each other. His Uranus on your MC, your Uranus on his AC. You must make an unusual couple in the eyes of others. You probably won’t have the normal kind of life of the stereotypical family. I’m getting the feeling that you will come up with some very original way of living, working. You really must give me some feedback about your life. This is most interesting. I’m actually excited to learn how you get on with this man. It really is very extraordinary all these links which say the same thing. I would love to know what you both do for a living, or what path you are walking down.
Your Chiron on his DC. You are the wounder and the healer for him. The wounds are needed to heal him. Also fits the story of the witch archetype. because you both have prominent Saturns, I believe you are natural teachers. Teach each other and learn from each other. Together you would be good teachers too. Combined you knowledge from the darker side would be invaluable.
THE DAVISON CHART.
Why you have came together a a couple. What is the relationships purpose? It’s also a chart of the relationship as an entity itself and shows the special synergy created when two souls join. The Ascendant is Sagittarius. So you are pioneers, you want to travel together wether this is physical travel or philosophical travel. This is also the sign of the teacher and higher education. Also the law.
Neptune in the first could mean a few things, 1stly it could mean a destined relationship. Or it also implies something of a spiritual nature. To spiritually evolve together. Neptune is also music and romance. It has a glamourous quality. Film and photography can be important too.
Jupiter is fortunate in the relationship house, but being in its anaretic degree can make it a bit of a wild card. Fortunes fluctuating. Extreme indulgence or taking too many chances as a couple. Especially as its closest aspect is to Mars, which is passionate and makes it rather a conquering energy.
The MC is in peaceful and diplomatic Libra. And this makes it very creative too. So your work together may involve the arts or great partnerships with others. Bring harmony into people lives. I like that the Northnode is conjunct the MC which means your souls mission as a couple is involved with this work. Your careers are VERY important to this relationship and if you are in the right ones they will spur you forward in the spiritual development, indicated by the AC.
The Sun, Moon and Mercury being in the 4th house mean homelife is important and domestically this relationship can be comfortable and work very well.The Sun is opposed to Pluto in the 10th. This could mean careers that are very intense, or to do with psychology which may be a challenge to a peaceful homelife. You may have to compromise how much energy you put into your private life and the work you both do with others.
Having the Pluto so strongly connected with the heart of your relationship, shows this is a union that will be constantly transforming itself, going deep into both your psyches and bringing up your inner demons for healing. This can get almost too much at times. It’s not the most lighthearted of aspects to have. But is deep, intense and gives your relationship much power. You both need to make sure you are using the power wisely. And of course Pluto is very sexual too. As is having Lilith in the 7th which repeats the same theme of not being afraid of the dark side of your natures.
Mercury in the 4th can mean writing from your home, a place of communication and lively conversation. And Venus in sensual Taurus there means cosy, loving, calming atmosphere needed to balance the lively Mercury in firey Aries. The IC in Aries is the root of the relationship and with the Sun in that sign in that 4th house can mean that there is quite a passionate energy in the house, this can tip into quite heated debates. Venus there keeps it harmonious.
Why the emphasis in the 4th? One wonders if your home will be used in connection with your work together. If its a place where people meet for discussion, Venus in Taurus makes you great hosts. With Mars ruling there is a great place to start up something, somewhere to initiate projects.
The Moon itself, which is what feeds you are a couple and where you feel both “at home” is in the 3rd house of communications. So again this writing in the home theme comes up. Indeed the Moons closest aspect IS a semi square to Mercury. More writing, media, internet from the home.
The Moon is also the relationships soul. The sensitive, fluctuating aspect of this relationship. And it’s habits. It’s very psychic there in Pisces, but also prone to escapism and fantasy. This can be great if used for creative writing or in the media. Neptune its ruler in the 1st house is also very Media orientated. A media couple perhaps. Working in film, fashion, Photography? The Part of Fortune in the 1st suggests success and happiness coming from your image as a couple. The 1st house is all about your image and what you project to your nearest and dearest.
The MC is what you project to the wider world. Your status in society. The role other people impose on you both. Venus ruled, they do see you as charming, diplomatic and generally “Nice”.That you have come together to promote harmony and beauty. But having Pluto there means it’s not all sweetness and light. You are also here to regenerate and reform. To bring about justice. To launch a charm offensive on the world would be a good way of putting it.
The major thing with this Venus ruled house is that Venus is conjunction Chiron. Now Chiron is a maverick, it’s going to go outside the box and it’s going to bring up some uncomfortable feelings in people too. The North Node that’s tied into all this, is tightly quintile Neptune. So the relationships path is so strongly tied with Neptune in a creative way. The quintile is very poetic.
RED FLAG!! All planets have a negative side and Neptune’s is the most problematic simply because it’s so foggy. With other planets it’s quite obvious which side is playing out. EG. if I suggest to you a heavy Saturn influence, is it work? heavy responsibility? stability?, karmic bond?, co-dependancy? you can see it. With Neptune it’s harder.
Now everything keeps coming back to Neptune in this chart which means both of you have to be using this in its higher vibration. So if you are working in the arts, creative writing, fashion, film or something religious/ spiritual, then this chart makes sense. It is also a strong Soulmate signature. But be aware that Neptune can manifest in: Drugs, alcohol, escapism, fantasy, unrequited love, delusion and deception.
As you get older and more spiritually evolved Neptune tends to be less of a problem. But as Natacha you are still young I thought I’d better point this out. I don’t know anything about your life, so forgive me if I am assuming the worst. But its something of a responsibility to suggest someone is a Soulmate from such a distance. I’ve seen people get very carried away on this, so now I am quite reserved about saying it. HOWEVER this chart is looking great creatively and spiritually for you both.
Let’s now look more into the personal side to this. We have already covered the 4th house which shows the potential for living together which is good.
The 5th house is the potential for children, love, fun and creativity. Chiron is there so there is a possiblity that there is some wounding there in connection with the things mentioned. But at the same time there is potential for great healing in these areas. Lets look at the nature of the wound first. Again its closest aspect is to Neptune, so this can mean unrealistic expectations there. But its also an area for great spiritual healing. Thankfully Venus rules this house, so with genuine love anything is possible. Venus works very well in Taurus and it’s conjunct this Chiron too which makes me more optimistic about this. Taurus is a nice fertile sign to have here too. There is also a helpful sextile from Jupiter, although wide, is from the 7th house of relationships. Which would mean once commited to each other Jupiter would work as the great benefic that it is and give some luck in this area.
The 7th house of marriage contains Jupiter as I have mentioned, and also that it was in the anaretic degree. Again once commited it might help settled it’s wild tendencies. It’s other close aspect a slightly edgy aspect from unpredictable Uranus. This throws in some great inspiration, innovation and flashes of genius from the house of friends and common interest groups. This is also connected to the Sun tightly by quincunx. So this effects the heart of the relationship too. Meaning these friends will be important to your relationship as a couple and inspiring, but also can shock and disrupt you both at times. Maybe you just have very eccentric friends!
Lilith is also in the 7th. So part of your relationship will deal with this magical sexuality. I needs to be nurtured and explored. Because if this is neglected through work or concentrating too much on children she can become quite vengeful, needy and jealous. Lilith is the mistress/lover archetype or the forbidden fruit. She can manifest externally if you are not both attentive to her needs.
The 8th house is the house of sex itself. Having your Mars there further amplifies the need to satisfy the sexual energy in this relationship. It’s the Planet with the most squares to it. So it makes it quite a challenge. I’m wondering why Saturn should also be in this house because that put’s a bit of a brake here. Maybe it’s giving that sexual area a bit of stability. Mars is squared all that lively discussion and general good time in the home planets in the 4th. It also rules the 4th. So the sexuality is where the most challenges come in this chart. You are brought together to deal with this. Mars is also in a slightly irritable aspect to the Moon too. It could mean suppressed anger against domestic restraints. With that pioneering AC, neither of you want to be held back by responsiblities coming from the home.
Since the Vertex is also in Cancer. Destinys door will open for you both with Cancerean type people, mothers, lunar things like dreams, the unconscious, nostalgia. It being in the 8th house adds a kinda magic and occultism to it, so could mean powerful magic created by using sex to open destinys doors for you both.
The South node is where your relationship was at in a past life. It was in Aries in the 4th house. So now we see why this Mars/Moon problem needs to be resolved. There has been an issue with anger in the home, which could indicate domestic violence. Or it can be rage against the mother resulting from a past life where a dominant mother inflicted her will over the desires of the family as a whole. Lilith squares the IC. So there was some conflict between a liberated sexuality and domesticity in the past. You may both have been in the same family where there was always a great deal of conflict or that one of your mothers was opposed your union.
All this means you are both very sensitive to aggression, and may have difficulty expressing any anger or dissatisfaction too each other so it gets buried. Mars is your anger and in Cancer can feel rather smothered. This is also your sexuality. So maybe the only way you can channel this inner aggression is through sex. Now it is doubly important the issues I mentioned earlier about sex with 8th house Mars and vengefull Lilith in the 7th are addressed. You need to move away from the fighting in the past (South Node) to harmony and creativity in the future (North Node). This is tied into your career/status or life calling as a couple too.
YOUR PERSONAL CHARTS TO THE RELATIONSHIP.
Your Moon is on the wounded Chiron in the relationship chart. You are emotionally connected to this past child or childhood wound and you STILL carries it because you have Chiron in the 5th in your natal chart too. For you this relationship is a chance to heal those wounds.
Your Ascendant is the same sign as the relationship chart, so you identify strongly with it. Of course you also have that Neptune rising in your own chart that resonates so well with the strong Neptunian influence on the whole relationship. So all the romance, poetry, creativity, spirituality that your soul craves seems to be catered for by this union. Most interesting of all is your Lilith is exactly opposed the relationships Lilith. So there really is going to be some real challenges and hopefully a way of negotiating a way of bringing out your own magic and sexuality through this partnership. It could be a struggle for you due to the sensitive Chironic wound. But a very rewarding one once resolved.
Paulo’s Neptune is aspecting the MC/IC and Nodal Axis extremely tightly and harmoniously. This means his Neptune dreams are tied in with the life calling and soul path of this relationship. His past lives (south node) are conjunct the Jupiter in the 7th house of marriage of the relationship. So it shows this union was very important to him in a past life. That he always wanted to marry you, tho wether you actually did we don’t know, since you don’t have that connection to this chart yourself. Its possible you could not commit due to the problems mentioned earlier. And again since your Liliths are conjunct natally, and his also opposes the relationship Lilith shows he was also struggling with the sex being taboo somehow here.
His Part of Fortune is opposed the Mars in the relationship. It’s in his 2nd house of money and the Mars in the 8th is inheritance or other peoples money. Maybe he was threathened with being cut off from his inheritance if you married. That’s an interesting placement. Now it looks like he is in a position to put this right by having control of his finances finally. His Pluto is conjunct the North Node of the relationship chart. So by going down the right path with this union he can deeply transform himself and yourselves together, maybe burning off a ton of negative karma in the process. But this is gonna be intense and pretty heavy going for him.
The power is in the hands of Paulo’s and this is a heavy karmic responsibilty. You are more sensitive to the pain involved with this transformation, so it really up to him to try to make this as gentle as possible. Because you are also the more Neptunian of the two, you could get carried away with the fantasy and romance, but at the same time be too afraid to make the commitment. I get the feeling this is due the the intensity of your past life together. Or if you two are already married, you may be worried about deception and have feelings of paranoia just because of psychic memories from the past. But these are things that can be worked on. I don’t think they are based on any real reason from this present life.
DRACONIC CHARTS COMPARED.
Edgar Cayce did readings which astrologers did not think made sense till they realized he was “seeing” their Draconic charts. It is still a mysterious thing but does seem to realte to the souls past, or purpose. In synastry your Sun trines his Saturn which ties you into his strong point, his mission this life. Your Moon is on his Uranus, a psychic link. So your Sun and your Moon both stong in synastry is very important. “Soul awareness” just came into my mind. You recognize each other. Emotional connection based on shared experiences. Very close emotionally.
There is not the strong sexual synasty here as there is in the regular charts. I’m thinking that in the previous life, the relationship was more of a spiritual connection, rather than husband – wife. Yes, his Fortunae in these Draco’s lies right in the middle of your Fortunae Vertex conjunction. Because of the strong Saturns here I’m thinking there may have been a working realtionship. There would have been desire because your Mars opposes his Sun here and his Mars is close to your Jupiter. I know this could be seen as a sexual thing, but I just get the feeling that in this case it represents a competitive work issue. There may have been success there, but you were not able to act on your desire for some reason.
This would make sense that now you find each other and it is no holes barred, you get to live out your sexuality to to the extreme to make up for lost time. Also get to continue whatever you were working on that never got to be completed.
Your rising Draco star is Zosma, the oracle of ancient Sumeria. I have my Moon on this star and it can give a mean streak and fear of poison, ties into your chart pretty well. The upside of this is the ability to prophesy. What’s really interesting is that your MC in the Draco is on your regular North Node, Phillippe’s Vertex. Here again the karmic link with your career and status in the world shows it being very important for your souls mission. Your Draco Fortunae right on his regular Mars translates as happiness for you soul from his sexuality and drive. Your success will spur him on to greater things.
His Draco Jupiter right on your Moon. Your emotional support allows the growth of his soul, making his journey fulfilling and succesful. His Draco DC conjunct your Venus. You are his souls love. His Draco Vertex on your natal Mercury. That’s both his Vertexes on planets of yours. Now you will open up doorways to other dimensions for him which you can access through him. It also stresses the destined feel about this relationship. His Draco MC on your natal AC is very special. Now this one links his souls calling into you. We didn’t see this with his other MC so much. Now you both have this from each other.
SUMMARY.
So in summary you can expect a volatile relationship in some ways, intense sexual experiences and the chance to work out some dark issues with each other. This is also represented by the Fool card, Uranus being eccentric and changeable. But also exciting. There are many, many karmic links here. I do feel you are destined to come together to work on some project together. You each have your own path to follow but i feel like you could walk side by side and assist each other. His stong Saturn Yod is a stabilizing influence for you and he could also act as a guide or teacher for you in some way. But you are equals as far as this occult knowledge you have inside you both. Coming together and experiencing each other fully should open up a large resource of self awareness and secrets about yourselves which should evolve you souls very rapidly. It’s not just the sexual attraction which is strong, but also the emotional bond, and love for each other. It really is a great mix. It sure won’t be boring together!
The 8 of Pentacles- Centaurus shows the near future, dedication to a craft, and persistence. You are both apprentices being called to apply your joint skills and talents to a meaningful career in this life together. Centaurus rules the hands, so some creative or healing profession where manual craftsmanship is important. Chiron was a centaur and your Chiron on his DC shows there is still more healing work on each other and which then to be used for the benefit of others.
We have now read each others readings and I have slotted them together in a way that blends them both. I am very pleased they marry up so well.
We both had the same feelings about you both. We think you make a formidable couple! The Draconic chart has less information, so we concentrated more on your life now and the relationships purpose. That was a big enough story there. The feeling I got from looking at the past life on the Davison and after reading the Draco makes me now think you did work together, maybe under the same household. It tells this story to me:
I think if it was something like you were a governess to his children. You taught them and he was also a teacher or writer and very well off. Maybe he did love you, but couldn’t do anything with his passion. Being the passionate man that he is he would’ve had to bury his anger and this came out as aggression to his wife. This ties in with the domestic violence aspect I saw in the Davison. He may or may nor have actually hit her. But there is an angry mother aspect. This could also be that he was very much dominated by his mother in that past life and she choose his wife for him. Not so unusual in those days. Not many people actually married for love.
This wife was not his intellectual match as you were. So you two would spend time together discussing his children’s education. Of course you would end up talking about all the things that fascinated you both and the wife was incredibly jealous of your intellectual connection and of course she would sense the underlying sexual tension. This would erupt in violent rows between them both.
You would be extremely sensitive to this with that Neptune, and would feel incredibly guilty as you could see how this was effecting the children. Now I see where the wounding in connection with the children comes in. So there you are in the same house day after day, living together but not living together as a couple. It must’ve been very painful for you both. So inside you there may be this residual memory that when you get together you hurt innocent people. But this is past life. You are together now to make good that past karma and yes, to make up for lost time!
